Free Newsletters RSS NEWS & TRENDS STARTUP BASICS MONEY & FINANCE SALES & MARKETING TECHNOLOGY SOLUTIONS 5 Things a Boss Should Never Say 4:47 PM ET | By: Chad Brooks, BusinessNewsDaily Contributor 19 Sep 2011 inShare 23 mouth-with-tape-11082202 CREDIT: David Hilcher | Dreamstime.com View full size image It's easy for bosses to get close to their employees, especially at a small company. But, no matter how friendly or comfortable you are with your team, there are certain things you should never tell you employees. Here are the top five: /*What not to tell:* Confidential information. – Jeri Denniston, Certified Strategic Management Professional for the Haines Centre for Strategic Management / "Never share anything told to you in confidence by one employee with any others. To do so destroys trust , is disrespectful of that trust, and ruins your ability to mentor and coach your staff," Denniston said. ……………………………………… /*What not to tell:* How wonderful you are. – Maynard Brusman, consulting psychologist and executive coach at Working Resources / "Telling your employees how smart you are needs to stop. Employees view bosses who exhibit this behavior as arrogant and condescending. It undermines motivation, engagement and productivity ," Brusman said. ……………………………………… /**/ /*What not to tell:* Disagreements with your superior. – Barb McEwen, master executive coach and organizational strategist for 20/20 Executive Coaching Inc ./ "A leader should never tell employees about any disagreements or personal issues amongst the management team. To undermine one's teammates or your leader is political suicide. Once the management team agrees in a certain direction, then everyone on the management team must be united in moving the vision forward," McEwen said. ……………………………………… /*What not to tell:* Do what I say because I am in charge. – Joel Garfinkle, founder of Garfinkle Executive Coaching / "This is taking advantage of your title and level in the company. You can’t get your employees to do what you want just because of your title," Garfinkle said. ……………………………………… /**/ /*What not to tell:*/ /Your personal ups and downs. — Tricia Scudder, founder of /Executive Coaching Group "To be an effective leader, you need to be able to put aside your moods, your doubts and the morning's argument with your spouse in order to focus yourself and your team on reaching the company's goals," Scudder said. * Rude Behavior Can Spread Like a Virus * 10 Worst Office Behaviors * Narcissists' Self-Interest Makes Them Bad Leaders SHARE inShare 23 MOST POPULAR ARTICLES now-hiring-11080302 50+ Job Skills You Should List on Your Resume 45,684 views resume, things to include in resume 11 Resume Myths Busted: Realities Revealed 18,359 views SWOT analysis SWOT Analysis: Examples, Templates & Definition 9,803 views mouth-with-tape-11082202 5 Things a Boss Should Never Say 4,221 views Rorschach blot personality test Are You an Introvert or Extrovert? Here's How to Tell 2,414 views *Company Pages* Company Info About the Site Contact Us Advertise with Us Using our Content Licensing & Reprints Privacy Policy *TechMediaNetwork Brands* * TechMediaNetwork * iPadNewsDaily * TopTenREVIEWS * BusinessNewsDaily * LAPTOP * MyHealthNewsDaily * SPACE.com * SecurityNewsDaily * LiveScience * InnovationNewsDaily * TechNewsDaily * IT TechNewsDaily * Newsarama * Herman Street * Life's Little Mysteries * NorthOrion * OurAmazingPlanet Join our community Join our Mailing List *FOLLOW US ON...* TechMediaNetwork | Experts Copyright © 2013 TechMediaNetwork.com All rights reserved.